Thursday, November 16, 2017

I Just Love This Photo And Position

This is not me but it shows just how pretty a crossdresser can be yet exposes the cross dresser nicely to prove he really is male.  My wife would make one improvement. She would prefer a nice crimson red to the ass cheeks by using her paddle to prove the Sissy (me) is kept punished.  I am sure she will pose me like this very soon. And I will have nicely reddened ass cheeks for my photo.

Tuesday, October 31, 2017

My Wife Calls Me Her Sissy - I Love It!

It is such a compliment.  I am her Sissy and I love serving her. I am totally submissive and obedient to her desires, wishes or commands.  I will do anything she asks without hesitation. I only want to please her orally unless she tells me to erect and enter her. She expects me to consume any semen I produce and I do swallow it immediately.

Tuesday, October 24, 2017

I Miss My Wife When She Goes To Work

I love to get up with her and dress nice to please her every day.  She picks out my panties to match hers and I try to match the bra and dress color to match the panties.  I wear nice sized breast forms to fill my bra and make my figure look nice for my wife. I prefer to wear lace top stockings and garter belt and high heels. I am shaved smooth so the stockings look really nice on my legs. She had me order two new wigs so soon I will have a new hair style. And every morning just before she leaves she likes to spank me and use a ping pong paddle on my ass just to remind me to be a good Sissy all day. As she leaves I go to work in my office and wait until she comes home so I can greet her at the front door with a glass of wine.  I will then cook and serve her dinner and clean up afterwards so we can watch TV together after I get on my knees and perform oral on her.  I love being her Sissy House Wife.

Wednesday, September 20, 2017

My Sissy Teasing Me With Cleavage!

My Pretty Sissy Husband Teasing Me In His Black Dress With White Polka Dots

He looked so cute!

Tuesday, September 12, 2017

Saying Goodbye Every Morning To My Wife

I Meet Her At The Front Door When She Returns Dressed Too!

I love being her Sissy Housewife Husband.

Wednesday, September 6, 2017

Thursday, August 31, 2017

Semen Training Will Begin In September

My husband and I discussed changing his ejaculation schedule from once a month to several times daily provided he adhere to some very basic rules.

  • He will of course consume his semen after each ejaculation.
  • His ejaculations will increase to a minimum of 3 a day or more.
  • All ejaculations will be onto a hand mirror using my Hitachi Wand or by his or my hand.
  • He will use a short plastic straw to suck up the semen for consumption.
  • I will encourage and tease him verbally so he knows how well he is performing.

This ejaculation training is designed to teach Sissy to enjoy eating and tasting his semen. His schedule of ejaculations will be 3 times a day or more to maximize his opportunity and privilege to eat his own semen. This amounts to about 3-5 feedings a day.

The straw will make the semen land directly on his tongue so he can enjoy sucking and more importantly tasting and swallowing every drop.  He admitted to me he did not like the taste of semen but after he gets a month of semen eating (100-140 ejaculations) done he will get used to it.  If he does like eating his semen then he will just have to do it because I want him to do it.

He has a penis gag with a feeding tube that could also be used to suck the semen off the mirror and it would give him a sensation of having a cock in his mouth and getting semen squirted into his throat.

The mirror is also used to let him see himself eating his own semen just like I see him - A totally Submissive Sissy Cum Eating Husband. 

In a months time he will have become my Sissy Husband Cum Slut.

Wednesday, August 30, 2017

Secure Plugged Gagged Spencer Paddled

He was supposed to get 30 but he got 40
He tried to complain a little but the ball gag kept him silent.
Once he's secured and gagged his ass is mine.
He's getting 60 next time.

Monday, August 28, 2017

Sissy Needs To Learn To Do His Makeup

I will be teaching him to do it every day in the morning.
He's now fully shaved smooth and it not even September.
He got a Spencer Paddling Sunday after cleaning the house in a pretty dress with petticoat.
He even wore his monogrammed apron.
Sissy is learning to be a very good Obedient Sissy Housewife now.

Thursday, August 24, 2017

Sissy Wants My Spencer Paddle Saturday

Sissy Will Get 30 Hard And Fast
Tied Spread Eagle On The Bed
Wearing Only Black Bra, Garter Belt, Stockings, Red Heels and Thong
Ball Gagged (Sissy Will Be Crying)
We Decided Last Saturday Of Every Month He Will Get 30
One For Every Day Of The Previous Month
More If He Was Bad During The Month
Then Corner Time
Should Make A Nice Short Video
And A Nice Crimson Red Welted Ass

Friday, August 18, 2017

A Sissy Tanline Is So Obvious

Tan lines do not go away and will always let everyone one that you are Sissy!

Every time you look in the mirror  and see nice white bra top tan lines you are reminded your wife is totally in control and you really are a Sissy Housewife.

When your wife looks down at your cute white ass and bra strap tan lines as she's pegging you she sees a completely trained Sissy Husband.

Tuesday, August 15, 2017

September Is Shave Your Sissy Husband Month

It's almost September and my Sissy is getting anxious for his first denuding - All hair below his neck comes off.

There is an amazing reaction from my husband when I denude him every year in the fall.  A total sense of submission and obedience overcomes him and I love it.  His whole demeanor changes to that of a total Sissy Housewife Husband once the hair is gone from his body. He becomes much more obedient and I like total obedience.

He knows he must remain hairless for me when I tell him it's time to shave smooth. The initial shaving takes a while and fills the tub with his body hair but the personality and mood change is amazing. I have noticed his immediate desire to wear bras, panties, garter belts and stockings when he is hairless.

Last year he wanted to wear a skirt and blouse or dress with high heels more often and I loved it so I think it will be daily starting this year.  He has no choice in the matter this year. He will wear a dress or a skirt and blouse every day.  He will be my Sissy Housewife.

He had been asking for punishment daily a lot last year and he most certainly will get it more than daily this year.  I really do enjoy when he asks and accepts a nice hard paddling or OTK spanking. And he will be getting monthly restrained Spencer Paddling and I will determine when he has had enough.

My Spencer Paddle will be used a lot more this year to teach total obedience. The marks I leave will last for a nice long time plus my Sissy Husband will be spending some quality corner time this upcoming year.  I want to let him think about how he can better serve me and be a more obedient Sissy Housewife.  It will mean getting up earlier to shower, dress and put on his makeup and wig so I wake to see my Sissy Housewife.

He will get it just as hard as this >> Click > Excellent Paddling < Click 

I do hope I hear just as much crying and complaining as my Spencer Paddle reddens his ass. He will be restrained and helpless so it will be so much more enjoyable for me. And as an added benefit after about 25 with the Spenser Paddle my husband will answer questions very honestly knowing I will continue to use the paddle until I hear what I want to hear.

The final result will be a deeply reddened ass and plenty of time in the corner to reflect on his desire to be a more submissive and totally obedient Sissy Housewife.

And the best part is he willingly asks for and submits to the Spencer Paddling.  

Tuesday, July 25, 2017

Spencer Paddle Discipline - Teaches Obedience - Enforces Submission

My wife and I are in total agreement.

The Spencer Paddle is the best tool to teach Obedience and Submission.

She recently sent me a note that she was displeased when I look at other women and asked me for a suggestion how I might stop this unacceptable behavior. 
She knows I was being asked for a punishment method that she would agree to help me be more obedient and comply with her demand.  All I could think of is how effective the Spencer Paddle is when she wants to teach me to change my behavior.
I suggested a restrained session on the bed with me secured spread eagle so my arms and legs could be secured tightly and she could have complete unfettered assess to paddle me as long and hard as she wanted while she verbally scolded me and give me proper behavior modification.
I also suggested she use a tablet running a slide show of pretty women directly in front of me so I could respond to her questions and she could us the photos to gauge my response.  I am sure she will expect me to have no erection as I look at these women. My training to restrict ejaculation and control erections will be tested.

I found a good collection of large breasted women with 138 photos. The list could be run as a slide show giving my wife a 10 second interval between photos to scold me and ask me questions about the photos.
A 138 photo database at 10 seconds each would give my wife a 23 minute punishment and I would earn 138 painful Spencer Paddle impacts.

She liked the idea.

What questions should she ask me?

Sunday, July 16, 2017

A Good Husband

How To Be A Good Sissy Housewife Husband – A 1950’s Plan Updated For 2017

1.) Have dinner ready. Plan ahead, even the night before, to have a delicious meal ready, on time for her return. There is a way of letting her know that you have been thinking about her and are concerned about her needs.

2.) Most women are hungry when they come home and the prospect of a good meal (especially her favorite dish) is part of the warm welcome needed.

3.) Prepare yourself. Take 15 minutes to rest so you’ll be refreshed when she arrives. Touch up your makeup, put a ribbon in your hair and be fresh-looking. She has just been with a lot of work-weary people.

4.) Be a little gay and a little more interesting for her. Her boring day may need a lift and one of your duties is to provide it.

5.) Clear away the clutter. Make one last trip through the main part of the house just before your husband arrives. Gather up schoolbooks, toys, paper, etc. and then run a dust cloth over the tables.

6.) Over the cooler months of the year you should prepare and light a fire for her to unwind by. Your wife will feel she has reached a haven of rest and order, and it will give you a lift too. After all, catering for her comfort will provide you with immense personal satisfaction.

7.) Prepare the children. Take a few minutes to wash the children’s hands and faces (if they are small), comb their hair and, if necessary, change their clothes.

8.) Children are little treasures and she would like to see them playing the part. Minimize all noise. At the time of her arrival, eliminate all noise of the washer, dryer or vacuum. Try to encourage the children to be quiet.

9.) Be happy to see her. Free her with a warm smile and show sincerity in your desire to please her. Listen to her.

10.) You may have a dozen important things to tell her, but the moment of her arrival is not the time. Let her talk first and remember her topics of conversation are more important than yours.

11.) Make the evening hers. Never complain if she comes home late or goes out to dinner, or other places of entertainment without you. Instead, try to understand her world of strain and pressure and her very real need to be at home and relax.

12.) Your goal: Try to make sure your home is a place of peace, order and tranquility where you wife can renew herself in body and spirit.

13.) Don’t greet her with complaints and problems.

14.) Don’t complain if she’s late home for dinner or even if she stays out all night. Count them as minor compared to what she might have gone through that day.

15.) Make her comfortable. Have her lean back in a comfortable chair or have her lie down in the bedroom. Have a cool or warm drink ready for her.

16.) Arrange her pillow and offer to take off her shoes. Speak in a low, soothing and pleasant voice.

17.) Don’t ask her questions about her actions or question her judgement of integrity. Remember, she is the Mistress of the house and as such will always exercise her will with fairness and truthfulness. You have no right to question her.

18.) A good Sissy Housewife always knows her place.

Dressing to please is important too.  My wife just bought me this new dress.

  • Back zipper closure,Classic half sleeves, front little buttons down
  • High Waist Style, Special Criss Cross Design for Waist-Fitted Visual Effect
  • Vintage 1950s Rockabilly Audrey dress for the 50's Sissy Housewife
  • Perfect for wearing a full petticoat and corset underneath

Saturday, July 8, 2017

Sissy Wore This Dress For Me And I Spanked Him All Day

That cute ass got spanked hard at least 4 times yesterday.

He knows he must ask me nicely to be spanked. I love to hear him walking down the hallway towards me in those heels knowing he wants to ask me as I have trained him. I gladly spanked him nice and hard multiple times yesterday.

He took it nicely too and just stood there quietly with barely a whimper as I reddened his ass and enjoyed myself.  I like to hold his erection on one hand and spank with the other hand.  He gets positive and negative reinforcement of my Dominance. I also like to verbally remind him of just how much a Sissy Husband he has become and how he must always obey me.

I knew he liked it by the size and hardness of his erection that was only allowed to get hard but not ejaculate. Erect he is at least 7-8" and when I am done and he is nice and red I have him tuck that nice hard erection back into his panties and go back to work.  He knows he only gets to ejaculate maybe once every 5 weeks now.

He is such a good Sissy Husband now!

Thursday, June 29, 2017

Perfect Dress For A Sissy Housewife Husband

Completely Feminine
Let's Your Wife Know You Want To Be Her Sissy Husband
Let's You Be The Perfect Sissy Housewife Or Office Girl

Zips Up The Back And Can Be Locked On
Your Wife Gets To Keep The Key To The Dress And Your Leather Sissy Collar
She Has Easy Access To Punish Your Ass By Simply Lifting Your Dress
Your Erection Will Not Be Seen Under The Dress And Petticoats
Perfect With a Petticoat, Garter Belt, Stockings And High Heels
Just Add Nails Wig And Makeup And You Become The Wife
Become The Prettiest Girl In The Office

A Perfect Choice For Everyday Wear At Home Or Office

Spoon Fed - What My Wife Feeds Me

She would feed me my own semen if we were out at dinner.

Couple is not us but the photo is nice!

I did get a great milking and feeding the other night after 5 weeks of no ejaculation.  It was very thick and very delicious.  Her Hitachi Wand made me squirt into a glass as I knelt on the coffee table. As soon as I was done squirting I knelt before her and she handed me my sperm in a glass and I drank it.

I love her expression when I drink my sperm!
She knows exactly what it tastes like so when I eat it she loves it.
She has a trained semen eater!
She told me if I was good I might get another feeding sooner.
I am trying to be really good every day!
It would be nice to be fed every day!

Tuesday, June 27, 2017

Being Smooth Shaved Changes Everything

My wife is so right, when she denudes me she changes my entire persona. 

All suggestions of being a male disappears except for my penis and little breasts. My nipples actually get very sensitive and very erect when I am denuded.  My wife has been using strong nipple suction to make them harder and more pronounced.  The suction leaves a nice ring around them making them appears larger. I want to get them pierced soon.  I love the idea of having pretty jewelry hanging from my nipples.

I get such an overwhelming desire to wear pretty lingerie and dresses, skirts and blouses or nice Jeggings or jeans and a cute top. And I love wearing heels all the time now. I wear at least a 3" heel now and like 4" for date night. And I have three different sizes of breast forms to fill my bras; small B cup forms for daily wear when we go shopping, medium C cup forms for office wear and large D cup forms for special occasions.

When I do dress my legs look great in stockings and heels and my arms look perfect in a sleeveless dress.  And the best part is there is no hiding a hairless body.

A hairless Sissy Husband quickly learns he is now the Sissy Housewife and as a Sissy Housewife he learns to obey, respect and please his superior wife.

He also learns obedience from punishment.  He knows punishment is meant to hurt and leave marks and will be administered daily as a reminder of his obedience and submission. If he requests punishment daily it will hurt less.  If does not request punishment it will be much more severe.

Wednesday, June 21, 2017

Denuding My Husband Every Year - A Hairless Husband Neck Down

There is an amazing reaction from my husband when I denude him every year in the fall.  A total sense of submission and obedience overcomes him and I love it.  His whole demeanor changes to that of a total Sissy once the hair is gone from his body.

I may need to denude him much sooner before we take our vacation in August to Florida so we can get some beach time with him hairless and naked on Sandy Hook.  He needs some public Sissy Exposure and I love the idea of having my bathing suit on while my smooth Sissy Husband is total naked and hairless walking with me holding my hand.  It lets all those that see him know I am the Dominant one and he is my Sissy. 

He does get quite aroused naked so I am sure his penis will be fully erect and nice and thick getting some sun.  I will be sure to give him a little hand hold and a stroke to make sure he stays erect for me. He's at least 7-8" hard. It will be fun to see the looks of other women.  Especially after I use the paddle on his ass hard just before we leave the parking lot and walk to the beach. A nice bright red ass will be so obvious on a shaved smooth nude husband.

When we go to Florida in August he really could use a week of being hairless in public to learn to be a better Submissive Sissy Husband not to mention work on his cute Sissy Tan Line.  I can just see the looks and comments as he walks with me in Key West on Duval Street.  We even have matching White Shorts and Pretty Tanks tops we can wear!

He knows he must remain hairless for me when I tell him it's time to shave smooth. The initial shaving takes a while and fills the tub with his body hair but the personality and mood change is amazing. I have noticed his immediate desire to wear bras, panties, garter belts and stockings when he is hairless.

Last year he wanted to wear a skirt and blouse or dress with high heels more often and I loved it so I think it will be daily starting this year.  No choice in the matter, he will wear a dress or a skirt and blouse every day.  He will be the Sissy Housewife.

He had been asking for punishment daily a lot last year and he most certainly will get it more than daily this year.  I really do enjoy when he asks and accepts a nice hard paddling or OTK spanking.

And this year he is going to learn to apply and wear makeup and a wig every day at home.  And his nails may have to be acrylic all the time now.  I will make this a requirement for my Sissy Wife/Husband.

Monday, June 12, 2017

Perfect Sissy Husband

Smooth shaved - Cute Little Breasts - Soft and Flaccid Penis - Doing *her* laundry - What more could you expect from a Sissy Housewife?

Thursday, June 1, 2017

Perfect For Her Handbag

When she needs it she just takes it out and has me pull down my pants and panties.
It can be at the mall in a dressing room or a family bathroom.
It can be on the road after I pull over and lay on my belly on the front seat.
That little paddle delivers a welted ass in no time.
A 30 second paddling leaves me welted and red.
It teaches a Sissy like me obedience and total submission.
A nice sore ass is a good reminder before we visit friends or go shopping.
And it puts a smile on her face when she is done.

Wednesday, May 24, 2017

Cum On A Spoon

After waiting 5+ weeks my wife fed me my ejaculation.  Mine was much larger than this photo and it overflowed the spoon a little.  She had me kneel so she could use the Hitachi Wand on my penis.  I had a first ejaculation that was very thick that stuck to the spoon then  a second as she kept the Hitachi Wand on my penis coaxing out a seconf thinner load of semen and precum.  Then she held it up to my mouth and I opened and in it went.  The thicker semen had to be licked off but my wife made sure I got it all.  It was hard to swallow but well worth the 5+ week wait.

Monday, May 1, 2017

My Wife Knows Exactly When I Need To Ejaculate - Once A Month!

She makes sure I enjoy it orally after a Long Hard OTK Spanking. 
She has taught me to control my personal need for ejaculation to only once a month and I am in total agreement. It feels and tastes so much better to wait a month between ejaculations.
Her spankings have also taught me obedience and total submission to her.  I expect and will ask for punishment because it pleases her.  She likes to hear me ask for a spanking and she especially likes to hear me ask for it harder as she spanks me. She knows it hurts and she loves to make sure I get what I ask for.
I love when she feeds me! She has taught how important it is for me to immediately eat the warm semen.  She likes to use a spoon to catch it and feed it to me after I politely ask for my feeding.  She has such a wonderful smile as she brings that spoon to my mouth and watches me open for my special once a month treat knowing all too well what fresh semen tastes like.
I get such a feeling of total obedience and submission when I have a mouthful of my own semen and I love how my wife seems to enjoy feeding me.  Some day I hope to self suck as the photo depicts so I can get the semen squirted right into my mouth where it belongs.

Tuesday, April 18, 2017

I Miss My Wife When She Goes To Work

This morning I put on cute striped tan with black lines pantyhose over my black lace panties.  I also put on my new black lace bra and medium breast forms and a nice white with black pattern dress that zips up the back and my black high heels.  My wife was pleased! And I was so excited my panties were wet from precum. When she felt my panties under my dress she looked at me and said, "You know you are not to be erect or wet unless I give you permission so we will let the Spencer Paddle help you understand how to behave when I get home Sissy".

Monday, April 10, 2017

His Asshole Got A Good Reaming This Weekend

He really seemed to enjoy it too.  I pegged him good with my strap on.  We are going to start training him to take my larger dildos.  I have a nice sized hard silicon dildo he is going to have inserted for a few hours a day to stretch his asshole and let it open up.  Once we get it to relax we have a very nice glass dildo plug with a fat head that I am going to have him wear all day.  I love the way he drips so much precum when his ass is filled.

Saturday, March 25, 2017

I Accept Punishment - It Makes Me A Better Sissy Husband

She expects me to dress pretty for her.  She expects me to cook and serve her.  She expects me to clean and do chores for her.  But perhaps what she expects the most is for me to willingly and obediently accept and expect punishment from her.

I love being hand spanked and over her lap.  She really seems to enjoy spanking me and she can easily see how red my ass will get after a good long hand spanking.

Last night as I was cooking I went over to her on the couch and lifted my skirt (not this photo) and laid across her lap.  No words or comments.  She knew I needed and wanted a spanking and she gave it to me.  After a while I got up and checked on dinner.  Then I went back to her and lifted my skirt and laid across her lap for more.  She was happy to oblige.

After dinner sitting on the couch in our matching nightgowns she was holding my penis and made me get very erect.  A little hand cream and stroking and I was very hard.  I asked her to lay back on the couch and I entered her and stroked my penis in and out of her nice and deep.  She had a nice orgasm and I had to stop before I orgasmed.  I pulled out and thanked her for the erection and let myself go soft.

I have been taught to not orgasm unless she gives me permission.  And permission is not for well over two weeks from now.  I am up to three weeks between ejaculations and I asked for her to make it four weeks this time.

I prefer to please her.  I do not deserve an ejaculation more than once a month.  After a month and twice a day spankings and paddlings and being pegged as much as she wants the monthly orgasm is so much more enjoyable and delicious.

Tuesday, March 21, 2017

An Excellent Posting On Spouse Punishment - Good Read

Better Spouses | Punishment

January 1, 2013
TOWARD A FANTASTIC MARRIAGE: How and why Domestic Discipline works.
An essay by Vivian (part 3).
Though this component of your new relationship with your husband may be more difficult to embrace than the first, don’t tune out yet. Punishment is essential to projecting power and you’ll be amazed at the effect it has on your marriage.
As stated earlier, a wife must strictly forbid her husband to masturbate. That prohibition must be enforced in order to be effective. Your husband must know that if he does masturbate he will be in trouble with you. That trouble will include by its very nature a certain measure of shame and embarrassment, but it must also be tangible.
Some of you may be thinking I shouldn’t have to punish my husband as if he were a child. He’s a grown adult for God’s sake. Others who know better may be thinking, I have no problem with the idea of punishing my husband, but he is bigger and stronger than me and I don’t think he would simply agree to accept punishment from me. The answer to those thoughts are “Yes, you do” and “Yes he will.”
I understand those of you who think it shouldn’t be necessary to punish your husband. It might be better (though less fun) if husbands didn’t need to be punished or threatened with punishment to behave wonderfully. That might be nice, but it won’t happen. Men don’t truly understand a thing until they have felt it.
The thing to remember is that most wives attempt to punish their husbands somewhat regularly but in less effective, indirect and passive/aggressive ways. Those ways do not usually work well because the husband usually doesn’t understand what is happening and if he does, he resents being manipulated in such weak and cowardly ways. Men respect strength. The woman who punishes her husband in a forthright manner wins his respect and adoration. A woman who attempts to punish her husband in weak and indirect ways earns his disregard and even contempt.
As for your concern that your husband will not accept punishment from you, I can assure you that most men will actually welcome the idea. This is discussed further in the section Why This Works. For now, the thing to know is that men are chock full of sexual fantasies that they rarely act out or tell anyone, especially their wives, about. Among those fantasies is a fascination with the idea of being dominated by a powerful woman. When you discipline your husband you tap into that fantasy in order to benefit yourself, your husband, your marriage and your family. Another reason he will acquiesce to your discipline is the control you have taken over his ejaculation. When he has become accustomed to awaiting your permission to ejaculate, he will obey you without rebellion.
You may wonder, if he secretly wants to be punished doesn’t the punishment become a reward and accomplish the opposite of its intent? The short answer is no. For most men it is not the punishment, but the power of the woman doing the punishing, that arouses. A good, hard spanking hurts and is humiliating while it is happening. The notion that you have or may at any time cause him those feelings makes you excruciatingly desirable to him. There are two components to a Domestic Discipline agreement.. There is a game-type aspect and a serious aspect to it. The game aspect wins his cooperation. The serious aspect makes it an effective behavioral modifier. This question is explained further in the FAQs section.
Punishment can take many forms: a simple scolding, a time-out in the corner, a mouth washing, a humiliating demand, a spanking, a chastity device. The foundation for them all is the spanking. The experience of being spanked hard by you makes him more cooperative with the less physical punishments. By this I do not mean a simple slap on the buttocks. That can be used, if you like as playful foreplay. What I mean is a serious, over-the-knee, bare-bottomed, hard spanking with something other than your hand. You may begin with your hand if your like, but in order for it to be truly disciplinary you must use something such as a paddle, the backside of a hairbrush or a belt. A rich description of implements and techniques can be found through sites as The Disciplinary Wives Club. This site is a must for any wife who is really serious about introducing discipline into her relationship.
This kind of direct punishment is much more likely to affect the kinds of changes you want to see in your husband and is much more compassionate than the usual repertoire used by most wives. In most marriages a wife feels despair over certain of her husband habits or behaviors because she feels those behaviors have more power over her than she has over her husband. This despair leads her to “punish” her husband in indirect ways as I have mentioned. She pouts, she tries to ignore him, she rolls her eyes when he speaks, she gives him the silent treatment, she withholds her affection, she tells him he is not as good a husband as other men she knows, she may even threaten to leave him. The underlying dynamic here is that the only power the wife feels she has is the power to reject her husband. The ultimate weapon, then, is divorce.
Before you dismiss the idea of corporal punishment of you husband as weird or cruel or immoral, think seriously about this “normal” form of spousal control and think seriously about its effects. For most men the state of marriage (particularly monogamy) goes against the grain once they have passed the honeymoon phase. When they remain married they do so, they feel, out of a sense of obligation to their wife or children if there are any. That is a good thing but it means he feels he is doing you a favor by staying in the marriage and carrying out the duties of a husband and father. The threat of rejection hurts a lot more than the hardest of spankings and humiliates a lot more than the most embarrassing punishment. After a good, hard spanking, on the other hand, a husband feels both regret for the action that brought about the punishment and appreciation for the wife who has taken her time to give him the gift of correction.
When the husband feels the bottom line is rejection or its threat he resents his wife because, as I’ve said, he feels he is the one doing the favor by staying in the relationship. He will think to himself, If she thinks she can do so much better without me, let her try. He may even say this at times. And where do you go from there? Most women in a marriage, especially if there are children, feel even more trapped than their husbands. Because a mother’s commitment to her children is stronger than even the best of fathers and because she knows it is best for the children that the marriage stay together, most wives do not want to make good on their threat of rejection. This increases her despair and makes her feel even more powerless to affect her husband’s behavior.
A good, sound spanking, on the other hand, releases built up tensions and frustrations in a marriage and can actually be enjoyable for the wife. So, instead of feeling helpless and despairing, a wife can threaten a punishment she is more than willing to carry out and feel power and hope for her marriage instead. Additionally, her punishment of him will be loving as well as disciplinary.
As for the husband who has been spanked or threatened with spanking, he does not have the resentment he feels when the ultimate weapon is rejection. Instead, he feels truly sorry for whatever behavior brought on the punishment and truly appreciative of the wife who cares enough to discipline him. In fact, most wives I’ve talked with who engage in Domestic Discipine, including myself, require that the husbands thank them when a disciplinary measure has been completed.
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